Really? Please re-read my comment. I took acception , not to your way of dealing with the situation, but your statement of people being on “meds” . I have more idea than you know when it comes to the food business,

 
It wasn’t racism you were being accused of , it was discrimination … in the end, you’ll never win with an argument against a wacko.
 
There is an ample supply of wackos, that I am not sure your waitress needed to cause this one (or those that are sure to follow) to add to your day.
 
I think the root of acception is to “accept”