Some of the best advice I ever received in my life was given by a friend many years ago when I had some conflict with my former spouse when we were working together in the same school (both teacher’s). He told me " Never get your Honey where you get your Money !"
At the time I really didn’t think we had insurmountable problems…but they were ! Many years and one divorce later I will testify there is no way you can leave the work-problems at work, and the home-problems at home. They will cross the line both directions and will not get resolved in either place.[8)]