ImtheMom,
Having never been married and thus never been divorced, I cannot identify… but I can give you a shoulder to lean on. Hmmm… guess I’m running a little bit late. Sounds like you’ve worked everything out pretty well… or at least ARE working it out, one chunk at a time. Best wishes and good luck; the shoulder’s still there if you ever need it.
You’re still the mom, but perhaps your new post name can be something that we’ll know immediately… like WastheMom. Oh, I’m not feeling eloquent tonight… I’ve got a sniffle and can’t think quite properly… like my brain’s as stopped up as my sinuses.
Keep in touch with us and keep us posted on how you’re doing. We indeed do care about you.
NottheDad, Ort. Carlton in Amazing-But-Sometimes-Lonelifying Athens, Georgia.
P. S. In view of my "kind-of-late"ness, I’ve decided to reopen this city’s Hupmobile dealership… 23 skidoo, everyone. Tee hee.