bill voss, you are on the money with Boardroom Bar-B-Q on all counts. They are indeed long gone, but when they were in business they were located at 96th and Antioch. I wasn’t completely wrong though; Hayward’s is located at 110th and Antioch.
As for Stroud’s, Bushie, their 85th Street location is gone more than a year now. Their northern location, Stroud’s Oak Ridge Manor, is still going strong at 5410 NE Oak Ridge Rd, Kansas City, MO. That’s a bit of a haul from Overland Park but some might think it’s worth it.